St Valentine’s Day – The True Beloved

As-salámu ‘alaikum wa rahmatul láhi wa barakátuh!”
“A-úthu billáhi minash shaytánir rajeem.  Bismilláhir rahmánir raheem.
Al hamdu lillahi nahmaduhu wanasta’eenahu, wanastagh-firuhu, wanatoobu ilayhi, wana’oothu Billaahi min shuroori an-fusinaa, wamin sayyi aati a’maalinaa. May- Yahdillahu fa huwal muhtad, wa may- yudlill falan tajidaa lahu waliyan murshida. Wa ash-hadu an Laa ilaaha ill-Alláh, wahdahoo laa shareeka lah, wa ash-hadu anna Muhammadan ‘abduhoo warasooluh”
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate.

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

Next week will mark the annual celebration for lovers, more commonly known as St Valentine’s Day. Whilst I do encourage you to be loving and affectionate towards your spouses, this is not something to be remembered only on one particular day, but every day of the year. I am not going to talk about the importance of loving your husbands and wives in this khutbah; we’ll save that for another day. Today I want to talk about the true loved one, the one who created us and will love us no matter what. The one that will not judge the way we look, criticize our size, or comment on how tall or short we are. I want to talk about the All-Loving Almighty, the one who searches our souls for true beauty.

On St Valentine’s Day every year, card shops adorn their windows with pink ribbons and red heart-shaped balloons, restaurants prepare Valentine’s Day special menus and jewellery shops and florists get ready for perhaps their busiest day of the year. Allah (SWT) encourages us to strengthen relationships with our spouses and work hard to always cooperate and love one another:

“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquillity in them; and He placed between you affection and mercy. Indeed in that are signs for a people who give thought.” (30:21, Sahih International)

However, let’s not forget why we love our partners. We love them for Allah (SWT). It is He who brought us to life and crossed our paths with the paths of all of the loved ones in our lives. If He had wanted He could have left us abandoned and alone with no one to support or love us. Our loved ones have been loaned to us so that we may enjoy their company in dunya. Their love and affection is limited and will only last until death. However, Allah’s (SWT) love is eternal. Everyone will come and go but HE will always be there, ready to comfort you whenever you turn to him. Even if you have not obeyed Him in the past, HE loves us so much that HE is ALWAYS ready to forgive us if we sincerely turn to Him in repentance.

“Beautified for people is the love of that which they desire – of women and sons, heaped-up sums of gold and silver, fine branded horses, and cattle and tilled land. That is the enjoyment of worldly life, but Allah has with Him the best return.” (Ali Imran 3:14, Sahih International)

Remember to praise Allah (SWT) in your prayers and connect with Him as though He is by your side and not somewhere distant. Allah (SWT) is closer to you than your jugular vein and knows everything about you – more than anyone else ever could. Allah (SWT) does not expect a lot from us and yet we fail to remember Him during our daily lives. Let’s not only turn to Allah (SWT) when in sorrow and in need but also at times of happiness. Let’s love Allah (SWT) more than anything or anyone else, for He is the only one who truly deserves all the love we have to give.

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Trustworthiness

As-salámu ‘alaikum wa rahmatul láhi wa barakátuh!”
“A-úthu billáhi minash shaytánir rajeem.  Bismilláhir rahmánir raheem.
Al hamdu lillahi nahmaduhu wanasta’eenahu, wanastagh-firuhu, wanatoobu ilayhi, wana’oothu Billaahi min shuroori an-fusinaa, wamin sayyi aati a’maalinaa. May- Yahdillahu fa huwal muhtad, wa may- yudlill falan tajidaa lahu waliyan murshida. Wa ash-hadu an Laa ilaaha ill-Alláh, wahdahoo laa shareeka lah, wa ash-hadu anna Muhammadan ‘abduhoo warasooluh”
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate.

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

In previous sermons we talked about lying. Let us today look at the attribute of trustworthiness and what it means in a life of a believing person.

Trustworthiness is an attribute of Allah Himself, as the Qur’an says:

“He is Allah—there is no deity but Him. He is the King, the Most Pure, the Perfect Peace, the Trustworthy, the Safe guarder, the Almighty, the Compeller, the Supremely Great. Glory be to Allah above all that they associate with Him.” (Al-Hashr, 59:23)

It is also a well know fact that the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) had a nickname El-emin, the trustworthy one, even before becoming the Prophet of Allah (SWT).

It was the fair and loyal conduct of the prophet (SAW) that earned him this attribute and we should take him as an example and earn the nickname of trustworthy in our own communities.

Believers themselves should be the epitome of a trustworthy person. If we look at the lives of all the Prophets, we will see that they were all the best believers and therefore perfect exemplars of trustworthiness. If we look at the Qur’an, we can see that Allah (SWT) refers to the other Prophets using the same words:

The people of Noah denied the Messenger. Prophet Noah asked them: “Will you not fear God and avoid evil? I am a trustworthy Messenger to you” (26:105–7).

Trustworthiness is also an essential quality of all angels with an emphasis on Gabriel. The Qur’an describes Gabriel as “one obeyed and trustworthy” (81:21).

We have received our revelation the Qur’an through the trustworthy angel Gabriel and trustworthy Prophet Muhammad (SAW). Angel Gabriel related the Qur’an from Allah (SWT) and the prophet recited and instructed us in it.

“God commands you to give the trust to (the charge of) those qualified for them, and when you judge between men, to judge with justice. How excellent is the teaching which He gives you! Truly God is All-Hearing, All-Seeing” (4:58).

According to Allah’s (SWT) Messenger, breaching a trust is a sign of the end of time: “When a trust is breached, expect the end of time.” When his Companions asked how a trust would be breached, he answered: “If a job or post is assigned to the unqualified, expect the end of time.” (Bukhari)

Through his truthfulness, trustworthiness, and other laudable virtues, Allah’s Messenger left an indelible mark on people of all ages. His every word and deed proclaimed his role as Allah’s Messenger that he was sent to guide people to truth, to bring them out of the darkness of ignorance and savagery, slavery and immorality, into the light of knowledge, high morality, love, compassion and true freedom.

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Worship

As-salámu ‘alaikum wa rahmatul láhi wa barakátuh!”
“A-úthu billáhi minash shaytánir rajeem.  Bismilláhir rahmánir raheem.
Al hamdu lillahi nahmaduhu wanasta’eenahu, wanastagh-firuhu, wanatoobu ilayhi, wana’oothu Billaahi min shuroori an-fusinaa, wamin sayyi aati a’maalinaa. May- Yahdillahu fa huwal muhtad, wa may- yudlill falan tajidaa lahu waliyan murshida. Wa ash-hadu an Laa ilaaha ill-Alláh, wahdahoo laa shareeka lah, wa ash-hadu anna Muhammadan ‘abduhoo warasooluh”
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate.

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

In today’s khutbah I will be talking about the importance of worship in Islam. In the Quran Allah (SWT) reminds us of the purpose of our creation in Aayah 56 of Surah Adh-Dhaariyaat, which says:

“I created jinn and mankind to worship me”.

Worship purifies the self and nourishes the spirit. Man’s perfection and grace doesn’t lie in physical appearance or material well-being, but it pertains to the spirit. The spirit feeds on purity and piety and scales greater heights through remembrance, worship and glorification of Allah (SWT).

Therefore dear brothers and sisters heed the command of your Lord and you shall be saved and will find true meaning in your lives. Let us not be of the ones who are forgetful and disregard their true purpose, for they will fail and be doomed in this life and in the next.

Under difficult circumstances and when in pain and suffering, remembrance of Allah (SWT) gives us peace and comfort.

The Qur’an teaches us exactly that:

“We are well aware that your heart is weighed down by what they (mushrikeen and kaafireen) say. Celebrate the glory of your Lord and be among those who bow down to Him: Worship your Lord until what is certain comes to you.”

Worship is a proclamation of Allah’s (SWT) greatness and total sovereignty. Allah (SWT) says in Surah An-Nasr:

“When Allah’s help comes and He opens up your way [Prophet (SAW)], when you see people embracing Allah’s faith in crowds, celebrate the praise of your Lord and ask His forgiveness: He is always ready to accept repentance.”

The importance of the khutbah today is to highlight that worship is a source which nourishes the spirit, purifies and enlightens the heart, and is the source of peace and contentment.

Dear brothers and sisters let us make conscious efforts to improve the quality of our worship and prayers and to remember Allah (SWT), our creator at all times, good and bad.

“Allah humma aa innee ala zikrika wa shukrika wa husn-i-ibaadatik”.

Its close translation would be: O Allah! Help me to remember you, to thank you, and to worship you in the best of manners. Ameen!

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The Birth of Jesus, Prophet Isa, and the Virgin Mary

As-salámu ‘alaikum wa rahmatul láhi wa barakátuh!”
“A-úthu billáhi minash shaytánir rajeem.  Bismilláhir rahmánir raheem.
Al hamdu lillahi nahmaduhu wanasta’eenahu, wanastagh-firuhu, wanatoobu ilayhi, wana’oothu Billaahi min shuroori an-fusinaa, wamin sayyi aati a’maalinaa. May- Yahdillahu fa huwal muhtad, wa may- yudlill falan tajidaa lahu waliyan murshida. Wa ash-hadu an Laa ilaaha ill-Alláh, wahdahoo laa shareeka lah, wa ash-hadu anna Muhammadan ‘abduhoo warasooluh”
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate.

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

As the Christmas season approaches and Christians begin to prepare to commemorate the birth of Prophet Isa, Jesus, I would like to talk in this khutbah about the importance of Prophet Isa and of his mother, the Virgin Mary.

Even before Mary’s birth, the Qur’an tells us, everything was put in place to help make her ready for her special role as the mother of Prophet Isa (PBUH). Surah al-Imran, which bears the name of Mary’s father, gives an account of Mary’s family background and the circumstances of her birth. We are told that Mary’s own mother came from a righteous family who had faith in Allah (SWT) and served Him with devotion. When she found that she was pregnant she prayed to Allah (SWT), dedicating her child to His service. The Qur’an tells us:

Remember when the wife of ‘Imran said: “My Lord, I have pledged to You what is in my womb, consecrated [for Your service]. Please accept my prayer. You are the All-Hearing, the All-Knowing.” (Qur’an, 3:35)

The Qur’an goes on to tell of the wife of ’Imran’s surprise when she gave birth to a girl; she had anticipated a male child who would ultimately serve Allah (SWT) as a religious leader. Regardless of this, she trusted Allah (SWT) and prayed that He would watch over the girl and her children, saying, “My Lord! I have given birth to a girl… and I have named her Mary and placed her and her children in your safekeeping.” (Qur’an 3:36).

Allah (SWT) answered that prayer. Mary was blessed with excellent sense of morality as well as with good health and beauty, and her upbringing protected her physical and spiritual wellbeing. The Qur’an says:

Her Lord accepted her with approval and made her grow in health and beauty. And Zechariah became her guardian. (Qur’an, 3:37)

The Qur’an tells how Mary, dedicated to the service of Allah (SWT), went away to the East to live in seclusion. Her life had long been touched by miracles. Allah (SWT) would miraculously provide the child with food, to the astonishment of her guardian, Zechariah. While she was living in seclusion she was visited by an even greater wonder. The Archangel Gabriel appeared to her, as the Qur’an relates:

Mention Mary in the Book, how she withdrew from her people to an eastern place and veiled herself from them. Then We sent Our Spirit [Gabriel] to her, and it took on for her the form of a handsome, well-built man. She [Mary] said: “I seek refuge from you with the All-Merciful if you guard against evil.” (Qur’an, 19:16-18)

After Mary had expressed her trusting, chaste commitment to Allah (SWT) in this way, the Archangel explained the purpose of his visit as the Qur’an tells us:

He said [to Mary]: “I am only your Lord’s messenger so that He can give you a pure boy.” (Qur’an, 19:19)

When Mary wondered how this could come about, as she was still a virgin, Gabriel explained that Allah’s (SWT) Will was sufficient to bring such a miracle about. Allah (SWT) creates events or creatures simply by commanding their existence. The Qur’an relates the conversation between Mary and the Archangel as follows:

She said: “My Lord, how can I have a son when no man has yet touched me?” He said: “It will be so.” God creates whatever He wills. When He decides on something, He just says to it “Be!” and it is. (Qur’an, 3:47)

The Archangel also foretold that Mary’s son would have special gifts, even as a baby, and that he would grow up to serve God:

He will speak to people in the cradle, and also when fully grown, and will be one of the righteous. (Qur’an, 3:46)

So, while still a virgin, Mary conceived the Prophet Isa through the will of Allah (SWT). The Qur’an explains that in being chosen to be the mother of Prophet Isa, Mary was greatly honoured by Allah (SWT), who specially purified her for the role:

And when the angels said: “Mary, God has chosen you and purified you. He has chosen you over all other women..” (Qur’an, 3:42-43)

He (SWT) also blessed and protected her as she went on to carry out her task. Although, having left behind her family to live in devoted seclusion, Mary was on her own, Allah (SWT) did not leave her unsupported. He kept her in seclusion to protect her from being harmed by people who would misunderstand her situation, but He Himself helped her and she gave birth safely. Allah (SWT) provided her with sustenance to help her in her labour, just as earlier in her life He had given her miraculous food. The Qur’an tells us:

The pains of labor drove her to the trunk of a date-palm. She exclaimed: “Oh if only I had died before this time and was something discarded and forgotten!” A voice called out to her from under her: “Do not grieve. Your Lord has placed a small stream at your feet. Shake the trunk of the palm toward you, and fresh, ripe dates will drop down to you. Eat and drink and delight your eyes. If you should see anyone at all, just say: ‘I have made a vow of abstinence to the All-Merciful, and today I will not speak to any human being.'” (Qur’an, 19:23-26)

When she returned to her community with her little son, Mary was met with scorn and accusations. Her own people said to her:

“Mary! You have done an unthinkable thing! Sister of Aaron, your father was not an evil man nor was your mother an unchaste woman!” (Qur’an, 19:27-28)

However, as we have mentioned, the Archangel Gabriel had announced that Prophet Isa would speak while a baby in his cradle (Qur’an, 3: 46). In the face of her community’s scorn, this miracle rescued Mary. Her tiny child explained his own special role and thereby made it clear that Mary, far from being a disgrace to her community, was, like him, an honoured servant of Allah (SWT). To their astonishment, he said:

“I am the servant of God. He has given me the book and He has made me blessed wherever I am, [has] directed me to perform prayer and give alms as long as I live, and to show devotion to my mother. He has not made me insolent or arrogant.” (Qur’an, 19:30-33)

We can learn a great deal from accounts of Prophet Isa and of his mother Mary. Having both been consecrated to Allah (SWT) before their births, they went on to accept His will faithfully at all times. They remained His devoted servants even when faced with great challenges, including scorn and hatred from their own communities. Allah (SWT) watched over and rewarded them, and generations of the faithful have honoured them and studied their examples of devotion. May we continue to do the same.

I would like to end with a verse from the Holy Qur’an:

Isa said, “And peace be upon me on the day I was born and the day I shall die and the day I shall be resurrected alive.” (Qur’an,19:33)

And may Peace be upon each and every one of us. Ameen

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Loving Each other

As-salámu ‘alaikum wa rahmatul láhi wa barakátuh!”
“A-úthu billáhi minash shaytánir rajeem.  Bismilláhir rahmánir raheem.
Al hamdu lillahi nahmaduhu wanasta’eenahu, wanastagh-firuhu, wanatoobu ilayhi, wana’oothu Billaahi min shuroori an-fusinaa, wamin sayyi aati a’maalinaa. May- Yahdillahu fa huwal muhtad, wa may- yudlill falan tajidaa lahu waliyan murshida. Wa ash-hadu an Laa ilaaha ill-Alláh, wahdahoo laa shareeka lah, wa ash-hadu anna Muhammadan ‘abduhoo warasooluh”
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate.

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

Today I would like to talk about one of the most important topics in Islam. This khutbah will discuss the topic of love, as in loving one another for the sake of Allah (SWT).

In today’s society we have many ways of making friends and meeting friends. Friendship bonds are made at school, college, university, work and now increasingly on social media sites. We all have friends that we share common interests with who make us feel comfortable and happy.

However, we as Muslims should look closely at our friends, think about the real things that matter and see if and how much we love these friends for the sake of Allah (SWT).

The Prophet (SAW) explained,

“Allah said: those who love one another for My glory will be upon Minbars of light [high positions], and the Prophets and martyrs will wish that they had the same.” (At-Tirmithi)

Certainly, Muslims, like everyone else, wants friends who share interests with them and are fun to be with. We all enjoy having a picnic with a friend or going out to dinner with friends, and who does not like going to a gathering with some of their best friends? But, that is not all of what a truly Islamic friendship is about. In fact, an Islamic friendship is not that simple at all. In Islam, brotherhood and sisterhood bind true friendships, which are bonds that are stronger than typical friendships. They are bonds that exist for a much higher reason and with a greater goal.

As Allah (SWT) stated in the Qur’an, the reward for true friendship and love of one another is an exalted place in paradise. The wisdom behind this friendship is that true friends want what is best for you, not just in this, but in the other world. And the only way you can achieve joy and wellbeing in both worlds is by knowing and loving your Creator. By your servitude to him can you get to know Him and be close to your Creator. Therefore true friends love for the sake of their Lord and help each other obtain not only worldly but happiness beyond this world.

Love for others comes in different forms. Love between a husband and wife is one of these forms and friendship is another form. However, as we said before, love has many different aspects but the most important is the knowledge of the Creator and mutual love in His name.

The rewards of loving another for Allah’s (SWT) sake are consistent with the importance of such love.

Its impact is not limited to the individual but can affect the entire structure of a society, for if all loved each other for the sake of the Creator, rather than just for the virtues they have or the benefit we have from that friendship, then true harmony and peace could exist. If we could each want for our friends what we want for ourselves, the world would be a better place.

Islam does not just recommend you to love each other; it commands it.

The Prophet (SAW) uses very strong words in encouraging the Muslims to love one another:
“I swear by the One in Whose hands my soul is, you will not enter Paradiseuntil you believe, and you will not believe until you love one another.

Shall I not tell you of something that if you do it, you will love one another? Spread salaam [greeting one another saying: As-Salaam laykum] amongst yourselves.”

Here the Prophet (SAW) is saying that we cannot and will not be believers until we love one another. Until we love one another we can’t have faith or enter paradise.

We need to think long and hard and see where we stand, and how many friendships we have for the sake of The One.

Dear Brothers and Sisters, there is a great blessing and wisdom in the words of our beloved Prophet (SAW), please take this advice and apply it, love in the name of Allah (SWT) and greet each other with peace (Salam).

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Qurbani (SACRIFICE)

As-salámu ‘alaikum wa rahmatul láhi wa barakátuh!”
“A-úthu billáhi minash shaytánir rajeem.  Bismilláhir rahmánir raheem.
Al hamdu lillahi nahmaduhu wanasta’eenahu, wanastagh-firuhu, wanatoobu ilayhi, wana’oothu Billaahi min shuroori an-fusinaa, wamin sayyi aati a’maalinaa. May- Yahdillahu fa huwal muhtad, wa may- yudlill falan tajidaa lahu waliyan murshida. Wa ash-hadu an Laa ilaaha ill-Alláh, wahdahoo laa shareeka lah, wa ash-hadu anna Muhammadan ‘abduhoo warasooluh”
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate.

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

As you all know the time of the Qurbani is fast approaching. Let us look at this topic closely during today’s Khutbah.

There are two forms of worship during the twelfth month of the Islamic calendar, which cannot be performed in any other month. The first is Hajj and the second is the sacrificing of an animal (sheep, goat, cow or camel).

By looking at history it can be seen that the sacrificing of animals, in order to be closer to your creator, can be observed even in the tie of Adam.

Sacrifice, which is called Udhiya in the Arabic language, is defined by scholars of Islamic jurisprudence as sacrificing a certain animal at a certain time with the intention of pleasing your creator.

The Qur’an tells us of the obligations in making sacrifice. Aayah 2 of Surah Al-Kawthar says:

“[Prophet] Pray to your Lord and make your sacrifice to Him alone.”

Aayah 36 of Surah Al-Hajj says:

“We have made camels part of Allah’s sacred rites for you. There is much good in them for you, so invoke Allah’s name over them as they are lined up for sacrifice, then, when they have fallen down dead, feed yourselves and those who do not ask, as well as those who do. We have subjected them to you in this way so that you may be thankful.”

Anas (ra) relates that our Prophet (SAW) sacrificed two fair skinned horned lambs with his own hands and while slaughtering them, he had his blessed foot on their side and recited Bismillahi walLahu Akbar. (Bukhari & Muslim).

This sacrifice is also the Sunnah of Sayyidina Ibrahim (as) as mentioned in Aayah 107 of Surah Assaffat:

“We ransomed his son with a momentous sacrifice.” The purpose of sacrifice is to thank and express gratitude to Allah (swt) for His blessings.

Sacrifice in fact is submission and an offering to Allah (SWT), hence it is required that the best animal be selected for this purpose.

In the Qur’an, Aayah 92 of Surah Al-e-Imran says:

“None of you [believers] will attain true piety unless you give out of what you cherish: whatever you give, Allah knows about it very well.”

However, it is neither the blood nor the meat that reaches Allah (SWT), it is your intentions. One of the most important aspects of the qurbani is that the sacrifice, that is the meat, is distributed to neighbours and those in need. The owner is only allowed to keep a very small portion of the meat.

Nowadays many Islamic relief organizations collect money for the slaughter in poor countries and then distribute the meat to those in need.

Therefore brothers and sisters, let us not forget, if we are able, let’s slaughter our qurbanis and offer them to the needy during Eid. If you are not able to offer a qurbani yourself there are many opportunities to join an Islamic initiative that collects funds towards the qurbani so that you may feed your brothers and sisters who are in need and gain the reward from Allah (SWT) in this lifetime and in the hereafter inshallah.

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Being Truthful: the Qur’an and the Example of the Prophet (SAW)

As-salámu ‘alaikum wa rahmatul láhi wa barakátuh!”
“A-úthu billáhi minash shaytánir rajeem.  Bismilláhir rahmánir raheem.
Al hamdu lillahi nahmaduhu wanasta’eenahu, wanastagh-firuhu, wanatoobu ilayhi, wana’oothu Billaahi min shuroori an-fusinaa, wamin sayyi aati a’maalinaa. May- Yahdillahu fa huwal muhtad, wa may- yudlill falan tajidaa lahu waliyan murshida. Wa ash-hadu an Laa ilaaha ill-Alláh, wahdahoo laa shareeka lah, wa ash-hadu anna Muhammadan ‘abduhoo warasooluh”
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate.

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

In today’s khutbah I would like to discuss what Islam teaches about lying and honesty by pulling in ayahs and hadiths which will serve as perfect exemplars for our actions.

Muslims are required to adhere to ethics and to adopt a strong moral code as a compass. This can best be seen from the life of the Prophet Muhammad (SAW). He, the Prophet (SAW), said that he was sent to perfect ethics, morality and good human conduct. Allah the Almighty (SWT) guides us to pray and ask for good morals in the Holy Quran in this way:

“Ey Allah make me the follower of good morals as no one can guide to the path of good morals except You, and keep me away from bad morals, and no one except You can save me from them.”

It is well known that Prophet Muhammad’s (SAW) life was and is without doubt the best example of good morals, as the Qur’an confirms in Ayah 159 of Surah Al-Imran: “By an act of mercy from Allah, you [Ya Rasul Allah] were gentle in your dealings with [unbelievers] them … ”

Sahih Bukhari records the dialogue between Abu Sufyan bin Herb, the Quraysh representative, and Heraclius, the Roman Emperor. Though a non-Muslim at that time, Abu Sufyan could not help but attest to the nobility, honesty, integrity, generosity and truthfulness of the Prophet (SAW). Truth has a great power and force.

Islam’s emphasis on nobility, ethics and morality can impress any open-minded person who has an objective and unbiased approach. That is why within a few years Islam revolutionized what had been a corrupt society. The Prophet (SAW) once said that good moral conduct is a virtue.

Teaching of morals in Islam has two elements. On one hand it exhorts people to practice virtues, on the other it commands them to give up the vices. There is a long list of vices, and one of them is to lie or utter falsehood. Imam Navavi (Rehm A) has defined a “lie” as a report contrary to facts. The report may be given deliberately or out of ignorance. If it is deliberate and intentional than it is an outright sin, while if given in ignorance it is not.

Lying is the worst vice. It may be by tongue or by action or both and in all cases it is highly condemnable. Lying weakens the Iman>/em> (faith) and exhibits inner hollowness. Lying is against the teachings of all prophets. Whoever lies, his heart is dulled. Lying renders the heart incapable of receiving guidance. Ayah 3 of Surah Al-zumar says: “Allah does not guide any ungrateful liar…”

The Prophet (SAW) said: “Lying leads you to sin and sin takes you to Hell. Persistence in lying is recorded in the history sheet to be used as a witness against the liar on the Day of Judgment.”

Lying has many faces in our society and new ones are being invented. The one which is especially common these days is to create a big story on a mere whim or suspicion. This form of lying is not only belief in something which is untrue but the action of passing it on to others without doing an objective inquiry or investigation.

Think before you say something about others. Be very cautious and extremely careful while making comments about a person in his absence. Avoid suspicion and mistrust and think good of people. May Allah (SWT) clean our hearts, and enable us to watch our tongue and our acts, Aamin!

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Good manners in Islam

As-salámu ‘alaikum wa rahmatul láhi wa barakátuh!”
“A-úthu billáhi minash shaytánir rajeem.  Bismilláhir rahmánir raheem.
Al hamdu lillahi nahmaduhu wanasta’eenahu, wanastagh-firuhu, wanatoobu ilayhi, wana’oothu Billaahi min shuroori an-fusinaa, wamin sayyi aati a’maalinaa. May- Yahdillahu fa huwal muhtad, wa may- yudlill falan tajidaa lahu waliyan murshida. Wa ash-hadu an Laa ilaaha ill-Alláh, wahdahoo laa shareeka lah, wa ash-hadu anna Muhammadan ‘abduhoo warasooluh”
In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate.

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

The Qur’an is full of suggestions and guidance in attaining good manners in our lives. A few of them are as follows:

‘Respect and honour all human beings irrespective of their religion, colour, race, sex, language, status, property, birth.’ (17:70)

‘Choose the best words to speak and say them in the best possible way.’ (17:53, 2:83)

‘Do not shout. Speak politely keeping your voice low.’ (31:19)

‘Always speak the truth. Shun words that are deceitful and ostentatious.’ (22:30)

‘When you voice an opinion, be just, even if it is against a relative.’ (6:152)

‘Be moderate in thy pace.’ (31:19)

‘Do not make mockery of others or ridicule others.’ (49:11)

‘Spy not upon one another.’ (49:12)

‘Do not backbite one another.’ (49:12)

I would like to talk about the combination of all these manners which were put into practice by Prophet Muhammad (SAW). In fact, when his beloved wife Aisha was asked about his manners she replied, ‘His manners were the Qur’an.’

Allah (SWT) says in the Qur’an, ‘Verily you are created on good manners’ testifying to Prophet Muhammad (SAW) as the best example for all human beings in delivering good manners in practice.

Good manners and good conduct should shape the lifestyle of all Muslims and they should strive to attain the highest level in this area. This is a very important characteristic of Islamic identity. As Prophet Muhammad (SAW) says: ‘Islam consists of good manners or Islam is good manners/conduct itself.’ Also, in another hadith Prophet Muhammad (SAW) declares his own most important duty by saying: ‘Surely I have been sent to beautify and to complete good manners/conduct (for human beings).’ It is very clear that Prophet Muhammad (SAW) was sent to show and teach good manners not just through sayings but more importantly by practicing them in his life. Mankind has been set the best of examples in the life of Prophet Muhammad (SAW) as he exemplified every kind of good manners at the highest level in his lifetime.

Muslims have a very important duty and responsibility to learn the good manners of Islam and practise them in our lives. Prophet Muhammad (SAW) gave a very clear indication of that in the following hadith: ‘The best of believers is the one who has the best manners.’

Believers who have not got good manners are those who have deficiencies in their practice and possibly in their belief as well. Good manners are very important and are a vital part of the chain of protective barriers which preserve a believer’s faith and make it possible for him/her to reach paradise. Good manners provide protective barrier for Nawafiles (things which Muslims are advised to do although they are not compulsory), ensuring that the believer is fully spiritually capable of carrying out these actions. In the same way, Nawafiles are protective barriers of Sunnahs (actions of Prophet Muhammad (SAW) and therefore actions Muslims are advised to do). Sunnahs are the protective barriers of Wajibs (necessary actions) and Wajibs are the protective barriers of Fards (actions that are definitely compulsory for Muslims). Fards are the protective barriers of faith. It is very clear to believers that anyone who loses good manners starts to lose his/her hold on this vital chain. A lack of good manners will lead to a lack of Nawafiles, followed by neglect of Sunnah, then of Wajib and finally of Fards. Once any believer is at the stage of leaving Fards, God forbid, he/she walks in a very dangerous path; nobody can tell where this path may end.

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

Human beings cannot change their physical appearance but they can change, improve and beautify their manners. It is up to each individual either to follow the way of Prophet Muhammad (SAW) and beautify his/her life with good manners or to follow the deceits of the devil and jeopardize his/her hereafter. When Prophet Muhammad (SAW) laid down the priorities of marriage he said ‘Marriage can be done for beauty, money, social background and for good manners (faith). You chose the one who has good manners so your life becomes prosperous.’ This saying shows us the importance of things we can change over and above the importance of those things that are out of our hands. So believers should beautify their life with good conduct.

Believers should research the lifestyle of Prophet Muhammad (SAW) and try to emulate his actions. Our beloved Prophet (SAW) used to smile at everyone; he would use the best way of talking to and approaching people; he did not say bad words; he never lied; he treated his relatives, orphans and those left alone in society kindly; he took care of the needy and the disabled; he treated his neighbours and companions kindly and mercifully; and he advised people to take care of and to be nice to people working under their care. Prophet Muhammad (SAW) was most generous to the needy and to travellers. He never looked for a reward for his goodness to others, not even thanks, except for their salvation.

Another example from the Prophet Muhammad (SAW) is that he used to greet people he did not know as well as those he did, and even to give them food. In accordance with his own example he asked his companions and followers: ‘Give food and give greetings to those you know and those who you do not know.’

Bad actions cannot survive good manners. Through good conduct, the wrongdoings in peoples’ lives are eliminated. Once the Prophet was asked: ‘O prophet! who is the highest ranked among believers?” He said, ‘Highest ranked believers are those who have good manners.’

Dear Believers,

As Muslims, we have an important duty in this life: to live our lives according to Islamic rules, to do what we are ordered to do and abstain from evils which we are asked to keep away from. This can only happen if we worship Allah (SWT), remember Him always in our actions and activities, smarten up all our actions with good intentions and beautify them with good manners at the highest level. Faith is made up of pure actions as well as belief.

May Allah (SWT) make us read and understand the Qur’an, and subsequently put the Quranic teachings into action by implementing good manners as instructed by the holy Qur’an and the Sunnah of Prophet Muhammad (SAW).

Alhamdu lillahi Rabbil ‘Aalameen. Was-salaatu was-salaamu alaa Khayril mursaleen. Muhammadin-nabeey-yil Ummiy-yee, wa-‘alaa aalihee, wa sahbihee, aj-ma’een.
Ammaa ba’ad:
Innalláha wa malaaikata yusallúna alan nabi. Yá ay yuhal latheena ámanu sallú alayhi wasalli mú tas leema. Allahumma salli alá Muhammad, wa ala áli Muhammad, kama salayta ala Ibrahim, wa ala ali Ibrahim. Allahumma barik ala Muhammad, wa alaa áli Muhammad, kama barakta ala Ibrahim, wa ala ali ibrahim. Fil ála meen, innaka hameedun majeed.”

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International Day of Peace

As-salámu ‘alaikum wa rahmatul láhi wa barakátuh!”  
“A-úthu billáhi minash shaytánir rajeem.  Bismilláhir rahmánir raheem.
Al hamdu lillahi nahmaduhu wanasta’eenahu, wanastagh-firuhu, wanatoobu ilayhi, wana’oothu Billaahi min shuroori an-fusinaa, wamin sayyi aati a’maalinaa. May- Yahdillahu fa huwal muhtad, wa may- yudlill falan tajidaa lahu waliyan murshida. Wa ash-hadu an Laa ilaaha ill-Alláh, wahdahoo laa shareeka lah, wa ash-hadu anna Muhammadan ‘abduhoo warasooluh”

In the Name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate.

Dear Brothers and Sisters,

The International Day of Peace is a day recognising the efforts of those who have worked hard to promote peace and end conflict. This day was celebrated this week when people from around the world come together to organise events and various public activities including peace prayers, interfaith ceremonies, art exhibitions promoting peace, picnics and peace walks. Through the teachings of the Qur’an and the Sunnah, as Muslims we know that striving for peace and tranquillity is an important element of being a righteous Muslim. We know that these practices to mend broken relationships and strengthen universal peace values should not only be practised on one day but every day of the year. Therefore today our khutbah will be about peace. We will be discussing what the Qur’an says about maintaining peaceful relations and will be analysing its teachings about reconciliation and restraint.

The ‘root’ of the word ‘Islam’ in Arabic is ‘salama’ which originates from the words for ‘peace’ and/or ‘submission’, that is, submission to God and peace with all of humanity. Thus, it is no coincidence that the Qur’an teaches to greet each other with: ‘Al-Salamu Alaikum’, meaning ‘Peace be upon you’.

Before we seek to discuss peace on a larger societal or global scale, it may be worth looking at the personal need for peace within every individual and how personal peace helps bring harmony not only to that one individual but also to the communities and circles around them.

An individual human being is the basic unity of humanity. Bring individuals together and they make communities, societies, nations, and continents. Therefore the qualities that individuals possess have a larger effect in the world in which they live. Think of a brick wall for example. It is made of individual bricks which need to be strong to support and hold the wall together. Numerous strong bricks would build a tall, strong wall, whereas jagged and imbalanced bricks would weaken the foundations of the wall, causing it to topple. Like the wall, we need to be strong and level-headed individuals so that we can support humanity. If we can seek for peace and tranquillity within, we will be able to pass our serene good natures to the people around us too.

Islam encourages peace regardless of the context and situation. A Muslim only fights when forced to after trying all peaceful reconciliatory methods. Islam makes it compulsory for a Muslim to adopt any opportunity for peace if it arises and to extinguish any unsettled flames whenever possible. The Qur’an says:

O you who have believed, enter into peacefulness completely [and perfectly] and do not follow the footsteps of Satan. Indeed, he is to you a clear enemy. (Al Baqarah, 2:208)

‘But if they incline to peace, you also incline to it, and (put your) trust in Allah. Verily, He is the All-Hearer, the All-Knower.’(Al-Anfal, 8:61)

Not only does Islam forbid any kind of violent behaviour, it also prohibits backbiting and badmouthing people behind their backs, as this breaks friendships and families. At times the Satan can be very tempting and cunning at tricking mankind into believing that it is acceptable to retaliate to certain situations unkindly if somebody has committed an act worthy of such a response. For example, an acquaintance may boast about fooling their wife into thinking that he had an extended meeting when in reality he was out with friends enjoying himself. A Muslim man would not like this as lying is prohibited in Islam, however the Satan would tempt the Muslim to talk about this man’s unacceptable behaviour behind his back. The people he speaks to may tell their wives, who happen to know the lying man’s wife, eventually relaying this information to her. Such processes have led to family arguments and breakups. Whilst what the man did was wrong it would have been wiser to speak to him and explain that what he had done was wrong instead of talking about his wrongdoings to others behind his back. He could have pointed out that the Qur’an says:

“Truly Allah guides not one who transgresses and lies.” Ghafir 40:28

Again, Prophet Muhammad (SAW) said: “Do not ever lie, because lying leads to very abhorrent sins and those in turn lead to hell fire.” (Narrated by Ibn Majah)

Life is challenging and we must work hard to build bonds between people and maintain good relationships between our peers. Speaking without thinking on impulse is another temptation from the Satan generally derived from anger and frustration. It is important to recognise such situations and consider the consequences of your actions.

The Messenger of Allah (SAW) said: “The Muslim is he from whom people are safe from his tongue (insults) and hand (actions)”.

Allah (SWT) is most merciful and will inshallah forgive us all for our sins as long as we remember to make tawbah (repentance/asking for forgiveness). We must learn to love, respect and honour one another as equal individuals as in Islam there is no difference between rich and poor, black and white, slave and lord. We must persevere to understand the true meaning of peace, live it in our own lives and spread its beauties to all.

“It may be that Allah will bring about love between you and those of them with whom you are now at enmity… Allah forbids you not respecting those who have not fought against you on account of your religion, and who have not driven you out from your homes, that you be kind to them and deal equitably with them; surely, Allah loves those who are equitable.” – Holy Qur’an, 60:8-9

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Welcome to Friday Sermons

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